I used to do my best to feel appreciated and complete. I was loosing precious energy getting nothing instead.
I used to keep contrary opinions for myself in order to stay in good relationship with others. Although they didn't care much what I think, they just had a necessity to talk to someone.
There is always a boundary at some point for all those acts and behaviors. Once You reach it, everything changes: Your attitude, Your thinking and Your priorities.
I understood that all of these things I was doing were caused because I felt insecure, I wasn't self-confident enough and I wanted just to be accepted.
Then I learned that if I accept myself, I stop doing all those things. I save energy for myself, I develop myself and I value much more for others.
