piątek, 6 grudnia 2013

How self-acceptance works for me

I used to help others to fell needed. They not always needed my help, though.
I used to do my best to feel appreciated and complete. I was loosing precious energy getting nothing instead.
I used to keep contrary opinions for myself in order to stay in good relationship with others. Although they didn't care much what I think, they just had a necessity to talk to someone.

There is always a boundary at some point for all those acts and behaviors. Once You reach it, everything changes: Your attitude, Your thinking and Your priorities.
I understood that all of these things I was doing were caused because I felt insecure, I wasn't self-confident enough and I wanted just to be accepted.
Then I learned that if I accept myself, I stop doing all those things. I save energy for myself, I develop myself and I value much more for others.





czwartek, 5 grudnia 2013

We lose our authentic selves when we attempt to adjust to suit others

We lose our authentic selves when we attempt to adjust ourselves to suit others.
Be open to feedback. There is always something that You can improve, just don't react with anxiety for the critic. Otherwise you could turn into one of those isolated people who are surrounded only with an inner circle who just reflect back what they want to hear.



wtorek, 3 grudnia 2013

Stay focused on what is best for You

You can't change anyone. All You can do is stay focused on what is best for You and allow Your acts to be inspiration for others.


Bad experience into good one

"Turning a bad experience in good one is an art"

And it's tough, but doable. I've noticed that bad experiences, if you consider them properly, bring a lot of wisdom. If the lesson is learnt, You will be stronger than ever before and won't go back to the behaviors from the past. Leave the past with no resentment and thinking about it over and over again. Believe that the best for You will come in a right time, think about the future how to make it better for You and be ready for good experiences.


poniedziałek, 2 grudnia 2013

Only good in front of me

It doesn't matter what  will happen in my life, because it is going to be good.


niedziela, 1 grudnia 2013

upside down

The greatest prison people live in, is the fear of what other people think.
                                                         -Louise Hay


And you know what... they don't care...